We all know that she got this ghost seeing ability by stepping one foot too close to death, but who knew it would end up saving her soul for all eternity by every gesture of kindness she shows each passing spirit. No matter how much she complains about how scary those ghosts are and how miserable they made her life, when push comes to shove, she sides with them.
Despite having to fend for herself all those years after her accident and constantly living in fear, I admire Gong Sil for not turning her back to those in need. That’s what makes her small sacrifice to honor each ghost’s needs all that more courageous. Once she gets involved, she sees things through to the end. Ignoring these ghosts and pretending she can’t see them only works when she doesn’t feel any pity for their plight. She made a choice that went against what she had told him. Just knowing he is there to offer her his hand was enough for her to be brave and do the right thing. Even just a few episodes ago, that would have been her dream come true, but tonight Gong Sil realized something about herself. Lately I’ve noticed that Joong Won holds out his hand to help her before she even thinks to ask. Somewhere between all the bickering and misunderstanding, the tide has turned. She never wanted to let go and he was unwilling to help her out. Ever since Gong Sil and Joong Won met, they had a hard time finding that balance. It’s about the balance between knowing when to take the hand extended to you and holding out your hand when others need your help. That doesn’t mean you have to rely solely on yourself every step of the way.
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